As summer rolls in, it’s essential to navigate social situations with style and grace. Here are the dos and don’ts for summer 2025, from attire to drink etiquette.

Patrick Grant, judge on BBC’s The Great British Sewing Bee, advises steering clear of flip-flops. “While I can appreciate something like a Teva sandal, flip-flops are simply unnecessary. They’re just rubber abominations on feet.”

Menswear designer Charlie Casely-Hayford echoes this sentiment, stating, “Flip-flops belong only by the poolside, not for casual streetwear. Opt for leather sandals, which can elevate your outfit, rather than rubber styles.”

Etiquette coach William Hanson agrees, noting the inconsiderate nature of wearing flip-flops in confined spaces like planes. “Exposing your sweaty feet is unpleasant, and they offer little support while being far too noisy.”

Television host AJ Odudu adds, “I reserve flip-flops for the pool, beach, or gym changing areas. If your feet are presentable, breathable and comfortable styles exist. However, please don’t expose them during errands, especially if they’re not appealing.”

Graydon Carter, a notable editor and author, expresses his distaste for flip-flops, stating, “With the state of some people’s feet, I question their appropriateness even at the beach or pool.”

Style columnist India Knight believes that while flip-flops can be acceptable for men, women should avoid them unless they have a great pedicure. She suggests wearing them only after arriving at the destination to avoid dirty soles.

Remove Festival Wristbands Within 48 Hours

AJ Odudu claims, “You have just seconds after leaving the festival to take them off! I find wristbands suffocating. I wore this for attention, not memories. And seeing someone still flaunting theirs? It just feels immature.”

designer Charlie Casely-Hayford insists that two days should be more than enough time. “The festival vibe ends when the music stops.”

DJ Fat Tony expresses disdain for lingering wristbands, saying, “I rip mine off the moment I’m back in the car. They’re a germ magnet, and you can relive the experience through photos—there’s no need for a wristband.”

Author Otegha Uwagba suggests applying this thinking to all festival-related discussions post-event. “What happens at festivals should stay there; it’s exhausting to hear about everyone’s ‘best experience.’”

Chef Andi Oliver and Patrick Grant agree that wristbands should come off as soon as possible. Festivals are a time to enjoy, but don’t burden others with stories after it’s over.

When to Serve Rosé

Event planner Bryan Rafanelli suggests limiting rosé to before June 1 and after August 31, asserting its seasonal charm. While some, like William Hanson, feel the window should be shorter due to its summery essence, others, like Dolly Alderton, advocate for an earlier start, extending until late September.

Graydon Carter disagrees and feels that rosé can be enjoyed year-round. AJ Odudu passionately declares, “Drink rosé whenever you fancy! There are no seasonal rules—you can even enjoy it at Christmas.”

Deputy food editor Hannah Evans adds that rosé should be enjoyed whenever the sun is shining, reflecting the unpredictable nature of British weather.

Holiday Conversations Should Be Brief

Graydon Carter notes, “When asked about a holiday, just share you’re back and move on.” DJ Fat Tony reinforces this, likening it to a simple greeting. “Keep it concise: just a good or bad reply. “

However, Dolly Alderton notes that disasters warrant extensive discussion, particularly regarding travel mishaps such as lost luggage or missed flights.

Otegha Uwagba, on the other hand, craves the details when asking about holidays, viewing it as research for future destinations.

Shop-Bought Snacks at Picnics Are Acceptable

India Knight finds that store-bought snacks, akin to quirky home decor, add fun to a picnic atmosphere. Hannah Evans, however, insists there should be a hierarchy in quality, with options from high-end stores being preferable.

Event planner Bryan Rafanelli appreciates a story to accompany snacks, while designer Nicky Haslam believes picnic fare should be easy to eat, like pork pies and scotch eggs.

Chef Andi Oliver disagrees, preferring homemade contributions or even takeaway from local eateries.

Excessive Setup at Parks or Beaches

DJ Fat Tony believes that elaborate arrangements should be reserved for private spaces, while India Knight nuances that relaxing in a quiet park or beach spot is acceptable. Conversely, loud gatherings can invade others’ enjoyment.

Chef Andi Oliver recalls her successful community picnics, celebrating the value of inclusivity in public spaces.

Homemade Salads Should Be Balanced

India Knight argues that three or more Ottolenghi salads could come across as flaunting skills. While Bryan Rafanelli appreciates variety, Andi Oliver suggests differing flavors for a well-rounded experience.

Meanwhile, Nicky Haslam insists that guests should never bring items to gatherings unless specifically requested.

Hannah Evans argues barbecues are all about showing off culinary talents, with unique homemade touches enhancing the experience.

Men Ditching Ties at Summer Weddings

AJ Odudu supports men forgoing ties, provided the attire remains smart. Designer Charlie Casely-Hayford agrees, emphasizing that an intentional look is key. However, Graydon Carter remains skeptical about this casual approach.

William Hanson notes it depends on dress code, while Patrick Grant thinks avoiding ties is a missed opportunity for enhanced elegance.

Fascinators Are Outdated

Nicky Haslam describes fascinators as impractical accessories that lack functionality, while fashion director Karen Dacre believes they’ve outstayed their welcome. Contrary to this, Andi Oliver champions personal choice in headwear.

Commenting on Sunburn Can Be Rude

India Knight admits she occasionally warns individuals of their sunburn, citing health concerns. Others, like DJ Fat Tony, firmly believe in alerting those in sun danger.

Espadrille Wedges as Summer Footwear

AJ Odudu outright condemns espadrille wedges, while Dolly Alderton defends their comfort and style. Otegha Uwagba believes their appeal depends on the design and adds a personal take.

Patrick Grant supports men’s espadrilles, arguing they have a rightful place in men’s fashion.

Zoom Meetings in Swimwear Are Inappropriate

AJ Odudu and Fat Tony both agree that swimwear is too revealing for video calls, while Andi Oliver insists that clothing is essential during such meetings.

Avoid Unnecessarily Creating WhatsApp Groups

Dolly Alderton and India Knight are vocal about disliking superfluous WhatsApp groups, which they believe complicate gatherings. DJ Fat Tony finds them more annoying than helpful.

Conversely, Patrick Grant enjoys the lighthearted nature of informal groups, appreciating their ability to document events.

Otegha Uwagba humorously exits the conversation.

No Speakers at Public Spaces

Fat Tony states that parks are meant for peaceful relaxation, not musical performances. Patrick Grant supports this notion, asserting that unsolicited music can be disruptive. AJ Odudu is more flexible, allowing for appropriate contexts.

Chef Andi Oliver encourages people to enjoy themselves, advocating for freedom of celebration.